Before you can answer that question, you must be familiar with
fashion basics, and the basics of purchasing and wearing sexy
lingerie. True, if you wear something sheer, short and sexy, you
will get a reaction from your lover. Like wearing a tight pair
of jeans, it's a no brainer.
However, for the full impact, to create passion, to send your
lover up the wall with desire, you need to advance from an
outfit, to an ensemble.
When we talk about lingerie you must first be familiar with the
3 missions of lingerie, and the 3 creations of lingerie. The
three missions are;
- 1. Flaunt it- Enhance your special
features.
- 2. Hide it- Cover those less desirable portions.
- 3. Pretend you got it- Beef up portions that need it.
The three creations of lingerie are; - 1) Mystery- Make
your lover wonder what is hidden.
- 2) Excitement- Peek your
lovers interest.
- 3) Tease- Drive your lover crazy!
Once you have an understanding of how all 6 features work, then
it's time to move on to the advanced course of ensembles.
First you must understand what an ensemble is. The dictionary
definition is as follows;
Main Entry: en·sem·ble
Function: noun
Pronunciation: än-'säm-b&l, ä n-
Etymology: French, from ensemble together, from Latin insimul at
the same time, from in- + simul at the same time -- more at SAME
: a group producing a single effect: as a : concerted music of
two or more parts b : a complete costume of harmonizing or
complementary clothing and accessories.
Pay close attention to the italitized portion. Harmonizing or
complementary clothing and accessories. Many of you ladies are
already familiar with this concept. When getting ready to go
dancing, and you want to look your best, you would not dare just
throw on a dress, a pair of shoes and walk out the door. You
already know that to be your sexiest you need the full ensemble.
You would not dare wear a dress without the matching shoes, the
perfect earrings, necklace, handbag, stockings and proper
makeup. Yet, when it comes to getting ready for the dance of
love, many of you will simply throw on a sheer babydoll, a gown
with slits up to there, an alluring bustier, a figure flattering
corset, a bra set with a garter belt, or, a tantalizing teddy,
strike a seductive pose, or shake your junk, and leave the rest
up to your dance partner.
Yes, this will work, you will get a result. Just like hailing a
taxi will get you where you want to go. But, if you want to get
there in style, you take a limo.
For true elegance, style, and sex appeal, you need the proper
accessories to work in harmony with your sexy lingerie. You need
to complete your ensemble. Your accessories must complement you,
and your lingerie.
Are you ready to create unbridled passion and desire? If done
properly, you will be in control of your lovers eyes. You will
direct your dance partners glaze in a specific order. Your lover
will be your puppet on a string. You will make your puppet dance
to the beat of your drum. Your puppet won't even know that there
were stings.
Accessorizing starts with your make up and hair. Don't think
"day at the office" think "passion, seduction, and fantasy".
Planning is key. Just as when you were selecting your sexy
lingerie, you must consider what you want to accomplish. Hide
it, flaunt it, or pretend you got it. Rhinestone jewelry does
wonders for this.
Direct your puppets glaze. As an example. If your wearing a
cleavage enhancing bustier, you want your lovers eyes to start
at your face, move to your neck, and plunge into the depths of
the crevice. Rhinestone earrings and a V shaped rhinestone
necklace will accomplish this. The earrings should dangle from
the ears and point to the neck. The necklace should drape across
the top of the breast accenting the shape and giving definition.
If you want your lover to notice your tight abbs, then a bra set
and rhinestone belly chain will direct his line of site, and
make him wonder what treasures await him.
A rhinestone bracelet will allow you to move his gaze wherever
you desire with a simple wave of your hand. Caress your body and
watch his eyes follow your hand with lustful intensity.
The magic of hosiery. You are probably familiar with fish net
stockings, and thigh highs. Have you ever looked at fence net,
spider web, or tattoo stockings? The world of hosiery has
advanced into a technology of it's own. I could write an book on
hosiery, and probably will. Matching stockings will work in
harmony with your ensemble, enhance your legs, and hide flaws.
There are so many ways to create a harmonious ensemble, that I
could not possibly list them all. I hope I have started your
creative juices flowing, and shown you how important it is to
accessorize your sexy lingerie.
Be creative. It's your body, it's your dance. Think about what
effects you want, and then create them. If your not sure how to
do this, then good sales clerks can be helpful, don't be afraid
to ask. We are alway available to help you with your selection.
Answer any questions honestly, and we can take your ensemble to
harmonies that will make your lover wonder what hit him.
About the author:
Jim owns a lingerie and biker gear shop in Augusta Ga, and have
an on-line catalog to fill all your sexy lingerie
needs. Feel free to visit us at Hot Stuff Leather and Lace.com